Ketika jalan ke Wall Mart sama gadis manisku, dia memasukan sekotak tampon ke dalam keranjang belanjaan, aku terkejut dan secara otomatis kularang… “no honey, u dont need to use this, just using a regular pads” dia lebih terkejut lagi… sambil merengut dia bertanya “why mom? most of my girl friends use it and the school nurse explain us we can use either pad or tampon and my friends told me it’s really comfortable it cannot fall out and it may be neater than pad.
M: (menarik nafas panjang…ehm…) Tampons are inserted inside your V, so it can break your hymen and the man in Indonesia they want it to be….(gleek…suara susah banget mo keluar serasa abis keselek dondong)… the first who break the hymen and usually they do it in the first night when they marry women… (kok seperti menerangkan tentang pengguntingan pita pertama…)
N: Are u kidding mom? So Indonesian man, they don’t want to marry woman without hymen? What a silly thought… do you want me to keep my hymen for those silly guys? I can’t use tampon to keep my hymen doesn’t rip…? How about if I felt in the gymnastic class? Actually, they wanted to marry hymen or woman? Was papa married you because you still have hymen or because he love u? I dont understand that stupid idea? How about somebody got rape, maybe nobody will marry her? And then what about love? It doesn’t make a sense…
M : (sigh…) I know honey but…this is the way there… your home country and I just want you to be accept… (Am I an arogan mom?)
gambar dr sini